It& 39;s not uncommon to feel down for the first couple of weeks after childbirth. You& 39;re recovering physically from labor and delivery, dealing with postpartum hormonal swings, and adjusting to life with the newest – and most demanding – member of your family. All this can leave you feeling exhausted, cranky, and anxious.
Starting preschool is a momentous event for your child. It& 39;s that first big step away from babyhood and toward childhood. Be particular when choosing a preschool.Start your search at least several months before you want to send your child: In some areas, families need to get on wait lists years ahead of time to get a spot at a top preschool.
Is it safe to have caffeine while I& 39;m breastfeeding?Yes, but don& 39;t overdo it. When caffeine enters your bloodstream, a small amount of it (usually less than 1 percent) ends up in your breast milk. The amount in your milk peaks a couple of hours after you consume it.Since your newborn& 39;s body can& 39;t easily break down and get rid of caffeine, it may accumulate in his system.
Does music affect fetal development?No one knows for sure. Some studies indicate that fetuses can hear and react to sound by moving. But no one really knows what those movements mean because experts can& 39;t observe an unborn baby as easily as a baby that has already been born.Does playing music make my baby smarter?
MilestonesBy now your child should be able to put on an article of clothing and name about six body parts. She might also be able to balance on one foot for a couple of seconds or identify one color.Greater curiosity about othersAt this age, she might be able to identify one friend by name. And as she grows more aware of what others are thinking and feeling, she& 39;ll become more interested in playing with other children.
Most parents eagerly anticipate toilet training as a milestone in their child& 39;s development – if for no other reason than that it means an end to changing diapers. But few moms and dads are prepared for how long toilet training can take.Sure, some kids master it within a few days (see how to potty train your child in three days), but others take several months or longer.
WritingYour child& 39;s early attempts at writing certainly won& 39;t look much like words and sentences, but his scribbles, lines, and drawings are all helping him get ready to learn his ABCs – and perhaps someday produce the next great American novel.When it developsMost children are able to grasp a crayon and shove it around on a piece of paper when they& 39;re about 12 or 13 months old.
Babies grow in unique ways: The baby who sits up weeks before her peers might be one of the last to learn how to crawl. Or the 18-month-old who& 39;s still communicating with grunts and gestures suddenly bursts forth with prepositional phrases at 2 years. That& 39;s why we created this series of developmental guides.
To prepare for your baby& 39;s 2-month checkup, learn what will happen at the visit. You may also want to consider the questions the doctor is likely to ask and jot down answers beforehand.What the doctor will doWeigh and measure your babyYou& 39;ll need to undress your baby completely for weighing. The doctor weighs your baby, measures length and head circumference, and plots the numbers on a growth chart.
Getting teeth isn& 39;t one of those milestones a baby reaches all at once. Transforming that gummy grin into a mouthful of gleaming teeth is a rite of passage that takes a few years. By the time your little one is 3, he& 39;ll have a mouthful of chompers that he can practice brushing himself, a basic step on the road to self-care.
New this month: Practice makes perfectIf your child has been walking for several weeks or even months, her confidence and steadiness have probably grown with each day. See how she& 39;s able to start and stop smoothly, or can stoop down to pick up a toy without falling over? Fourteen-month-olds also love to move objects from one place to another; they never seem to tire of pushing boxes and laundry baskets around a room.
The best present you can give parents celebrating the birth of their second baby is an extra set of hands. Many second-time parents will tell you that having another child more than doubles their work, so offer to help with the housework, pick up Junior at preschool, or feed the baby. Here are some other great suggestions to help welcome baby number two:Dine-in certificates and movie streaming couponsWhen the beds are still unmade at five in the afternoon, the firstborn wants attention, and the baby& 39;s having a good end-of-the-day cry, the last thing a new mom or dad wants to do is make a meal.
What if my child refuses to sit on the potty?Even if your child is developmentally ready to begin using the potty, he& 39;ll probably need lots of support and encouragement from you before he& 39;s willing to give up diapers.If you& 39;ve been trying to get your child to use the potty for a while and he& 39;s been saying no most of the time, put the potty away for a few weeks and take a break.
New this month: Dressing up, dressing downAs she approaches her second birthday, your toddler can probably undress herself (which she may have been doing for months) and put some of her clothes back on. Loose-fitting t-shirts, jackets, and zippered pajamas are the easiest clothes to take on and off. Her interest in clothes and dressing herself may also extend to playing dress-up.
Choosing a daycare center for your child involves asking plenty of questions and being observant. Start your search about six months before you& 39;ll need childcare (the best centers fill up fast), and use the following list of criteria as a guide. If you find a center that scores a perfect ten, you& 39;ve found childcare gold.
Once you& 39;ve found a good daycare center, you& 39;ll want to get your child off to a smooth start. Here are some tips to help make this a positive experience all around.Set a good tone with the caregiverRemember to pay the fees when they& 39;re due and pick up your child on time. You may also want to check in with the center& 39;s director about what she expects from parents.
Your toddler is really taking off these days – and as you chase your little one down the street, you may miss the days before she learned to use her legs so well. & 34;Active& 34; is an apt way to describe kids this age, and they like any toy or game that allows them to throw their whole self into it – balls, swings, and tiny climbing sets, to name a few.
What are my options when my child or childcare provider is ill?Unfortunately, there aren& 39;t many options for emergency childcare, which may be another reason why so many parents dread it when their little one gets a fever, diarrhea, or stomach bug. Most childcare centers have fairly strict sick-child policies to prevent the spread of illness.
How should I handle taking my child to the bathroom in a public place?The answer to your question depends in part on where your child is in the toilet training process. If your child is still wearing diapers from time to time, it might be easier to stick with diapers whenever you& 39;re going to be away from home (unless you& 39;re going to a familiar place with bathrooms designed for young children).
Once your baby has head control, and about the same time that he learns to sit on his own with support, he& 39;ll learn to roll over. He& 39;ll eventually learn to flip over from his back to his tummy and vice versa, and he& 39;ll use his newfound skill to get around a bit. The incentive for those early rolls is often an elusive toy – or you.
New this month: New freedom to exploreThe range of ages when it& 39;s considered normal to begin walking is broader with this gross motor skill than with any other. Almost all infants are able to lift their head, for instance, between 2 and 4 months. But a child who walks as early as 9 months or as late as 18 months is right on schedule.